Chapter 1 dealt with "the high calling of motherhood". Mrs. Plowman began the book by reminding me that although being a mom a lot of times feels like a forgotten/unimportant job, it is a vital, skilled job that we need to perform with passion.
This chapter was such an encouraging reminder for me! Since the world in general does NOT value stay-at-home moms very highly, it is so easy to become discouraged and feel like I'm not doing anything important. Plus, the challenge to parent with passion and be excited about parenting was motivating to me since I do tend to sometimes just do enough to get through the day and nothing more.
"Being a mom is more than being cook, chauffeur, maid, counselor, doctor, referee, disciplinarian, etc. (just to name a few). It's about molding character, building confidence, nurturing, training, and guiding. There is nothing like the influence that a mother has on her child. A mother's influence has enormous potential to shape the person a child becomes, for good or ill."
Chapter 2 is about the definition of discipline. Mrs. Plowman first addresses how the world today associates discpline with "punishment that involves anger". She then goes on to talk about how many parents today who are trying to set standards for their children focus only on the outward behavior. "[I]f they can get their children to act right, then they are raising them the right way."
Both of these viewpoints are wrong/falling short of the true purpose of discipline, according to Mrs. Plowman. She gives the Biblical definition of discipline and its purpose. She sums up the chapter with this thought," We must help our children understand that their straying hearts produce wrong behavior...If you can reach the heart [of your child], the behavior will take care of itself."
Yikes this is a long post and I've only made it through two chapters out of twelve!
I guess I will have to split this review up over several posts...I hope you don't mind. Writing out an explanation of what I learned really helps me remember and better comprehend things so I appreciate you being my sounding board :)